Purchase a Lyman Shotshell Reloading Handbook 4th Edition would be the best place to start (about $15.00). It will give you all the basics on shot shell reloading and list loading data for all standard gauges. It will plenty of loads to choose from for the 10 ga. using various mfg components. The MEC 600jr loader will do you fine. I can tell you 2 1/4 oz fron a 10ga will thump you HARD. What 10ga do you have? If it's not a gas gun like a Remington SP10 you may not want to load and shoot many loads that heavy.
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