Which one would you choose? I have narrowed it down to the two, but not really sure that I like one over the other. I am torn & need a little advice. The Ruger weighs more & I would think, would help w/ recoil. But, I have heard Rugers kick like mules. Also, I am not a little guy, so maybe the recoil will not be a factor for me, (6'1", 210). However, I really like the vented rib on the Ruger more than the Beretta. It just makes the bead jump right out at me everytime. Any advice is greatly appreciated.