Hello Prowler67: The little protrusion found on a Md 12 mag tube as you call it the "stop lug" isn't to stop the action slide from going any farther forward. The "Lug" stops the forward travel of the mag tube when when removing the barrel assy. from the receiver by coming into contact with the mag band. Then the actionslide/forearm is pushed forward onto the flat friction spring that lies between the mag band and tube.
If you have a forward motion of the slide until it goes past this "lug", the problem is else where. Most likely the action slide stop spring, that goes onto the mag tube, from the threaded end, (it's a flat round split spring that slides onto the tube and is pushed up against the collar on the mag tube). Sounds like it may be missing. If it is there and not broken, (you have to take the action slide screw cap at the front of the forearm off, and remove the action slide from the tube to check). Now if the "stop spring" is present, and the forward travel of the forearm is not restricted then there is a problem with the action slide rod where it engages with the breech bolt. The little "tit" on the end of the rod that rides in the machined slot of the breech bolt is dis-engaging. Better have a Winchester expert go over it.
The "stop lug" has to be low enough for the action slide screw cap to go on and off, it does not go on from the threaded end of the mag tube. Regards Dave